Estate Houseman / Cook / Butler

Full-Time | Live-In | Multi-Residence (Palm Beach, Hamptons, Alpine, NJ)

Private Staff Group is representing a gracious, highly regarded family seeking a polished and service-oriented Estate Houseman / Cook / Butler to join their established household team. This is a dynamic, hands-on role supporting a multi-residence lifestyle across Palm Beach (winter season), The Hamptons (summer season), and Alpine, NJ (shoulder seasons).

This position is best suited for a well-rounded professional who takes pride in delivering exceptional standards of care, hospitality, and property oversight within a refined private home environment.

Core Responsibilities

Culinary & Service

• Prepare and/or assist with daily meals with a focus on fresh, clean, well-executed cuisine
• Collaborate seamlessly with existing staff on meal planning and execution
• Provide confident, polished meal service for principals and guests
• Manage grocery shopping, provisioning, and kitchen organization

 Household & Property Support

• Maintain interior spaces to a high standard; support housekeeping as needed
• Oversee outdoor areas, including patios, pool, and general presentation
• Conduct routine property walks to proactively identify maintenance needs
• Coordinate and oversee vendors and service providers

 Household Operations

• Run errands and support day-to-day household logistics
• Ensure residence security protocols are consistently maintained
• Provide attentive pet care for two dogs
• Support a smooth transition between seasonal residences

 Candidate Profile

• Strong cooking ability with a genuine interest in health-conscious, elevated home cuisine
• Prior experience in a UHNW or high-level private household environment
• Detail-oriented, proactive, and highly organized
• Service-minded with a calm, discreet, and professional demeanor

Comfortable in a hybrid role combining culinary, service, and property responsibilities

• Excellent communication skills: fluent English required
• Valid driver’s license and confident driving ability

 Schedule & Lifestyle

• 5-day workweek with two consecutive days off
• Flexibility required for evenings, weekends, and holidays based on household needs
• Seasonal travel between residences is an integral part of the role

Compensation & Benefits

• Competitive compensation commensurate with experience
• Private, well-appointed live-in accommodations
• Vehicle provided for work-related use
• Health insurance (eligibility after 3 months)
• Paid time off, including vacation, personal/sick days, and recognized holidays

The Opportunity

This is an exceptional opportunity for a versatile and dedicated private service professional to join a respectful, well-run household. The role offers long-term stability, a collaborative team environment, and the ability to contribute meaningfully to a high-functioning, multi-residence lifestyle.