A private family in McLean, VA is seeking a polished and service-oriented House Manager / Butler to support and oversee daily operations of their 10,000 sq. ft. residence. This individual will take pride in delivering exceptional service, maintaining household standards, and fostering a serene, spiritually grounded environment.
This role is ideal for a graduate of a recognized butler or formal service school (must be legally authorized to work in the U.S. citizenship or valid work visa required). The family, a young family of three, is seeking a calm and knowledgeable professional who can bring structure, service expertise, and a warm presence to a more formal household setting.
This is a unique position suited for someone who values mindfulness, service, and the “giving of oneself” through hospitality, care, and attention to detail. Working trials can be arranged and are fully compensated.
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Oversee all entertaining and table-service needs: breakfast, lunch, dinner, and afternoon tea.
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Serve family members and their guests with professionalism and discretion.
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Drive the family or guests on occasion (Rolls Royce) for airport pickups or other destinations.
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Supervise housekeepers and external cleaning teams.
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Manage all vendors including landscapers, HVAC, pest control, and pool service providers.
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Create detailed household protocol checklists for both family and guest preferences.
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Prepare guest rooms with personalized details such as preferred flowers, toiletries, linens, and reading materials.
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Maintain household order, schedules, and readiness standards for both daily living and guest visits.